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Boyfriend Still Online Dating
19 year old female from South Carolina

I met my boyfriend online and we seemed perfect for each other. At the time he was deployed in Japan because he's in the navy and we decided to meet up when he came home on leave.

We started dating in December and it was wonderful so I moved down to California (where he's stationed) to be with him. We were and are completely in love with a baby and plan on getting married. That's why finding out what he did was so hard.

I found out that while he was still over seas he was dating and sleeping with someone after he asked me out. I was hurt by that but let it go. A little while later I started to notice that he would get a lot (I mean a TON) of texts and was always kinda shady when I asked who they were from.

One day I got curious and read the messages and they said things like "I miss you" and "I wish i could see you" and "Im so horny, will you help me?". But the worst one that i found was one saying "You are so beautiful, I would love to have the chance to date you." It crushed me. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough.

After reading the texts I looked on his computer and found out that he was talking to over 10 women like that and sending...pictures, if you get my drift. Also that he was on adultfriendfinder and multiple other sites.

I gave up my life to go to California to be with him and he did that to me. I still feel like im replaceable even though he swears he stopped. It's too hard to trust him again. He said he didnt see it as cheating but I do. I see cheating as anything that you wouldn't do or talk openly about with your significant other. I was also made to feel like a terrible person because I confronted him about reading the texts and emails. Was i wrong? What should I do?

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