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Online Dating Experience 42
Wanting Clean Urban Men
41 year old female from Texas

I have met many guys online but probably only got out with 5% of them after the weeding process. My biggest contact problem is that I am flooded with country guys in cowboy hats and standing next to horses, etc. Also, does every man over 40 ride a Harley? They are also obsesses with fishing and hunting and the outdoors. I am a city person and have no interest in the country life or Harleys I consider myself feminine and not a biker babe.

Of the guys that I have met, I have been rejected by almost all of them and the few that mentioned a second date just disappeared. I am completely honest in my profile and my pictures are current. I think it is the fact that I don't have a college education and that I don't have a big paying job. It is funny that these guys can't have a relationship with me because of those things but at the same time, I get tons of emails from guys 15-20 years older than me and also guys with three or more kids, not to mention guys that are overweight especially in relation to my small frame.

I seem to go on one first date after the other. I have only had two cheap dates (one guy ate in front of me and the other walked away from the coffee shop that we agreed to meet at).

It seems these guys would be better off finding a guy friend to do the guy stuff they enjoy. As a woman I don't enjoy men's activities and do not want to go out to a parking lot on the weekend and look at everyone's sports car.

I also see that so many of these guys are looking for someone who "can keep up with me". Gee if I can't "keep up with them" certainly they will come back around and I will run into them won't I.

If I see a motorcycle, a horse, a fish, a cowboy hat or hear one more story about the country life, I will jump! I like clean urban men and city living.

Also I receive too many currently separated responses and men wanting to have sex right away. I have found that the men who say they are looking for marriage and commitment really aren't. The "friends" line means they are looking for no commitment sex.

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