Online Dating Lies - I Tested Him

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Online Dating Experience 38
Online Dating Lies - I Tested Him. He Failed
35 year old female from Minnesota

Well, I started seeing a guy about an hour and a half away from me... in Superior, WI. Everything seemed ok at first, except it seemed that he never had any time for me. Yet, when I asked him, he invariably told me that he wanted to see me more when his very busy life settled down. Well, I did go to see him, I knew he didn't have a wife or girlfriend living with him. But something was amiss...

I checked to see how often he was checking his personals ad (they are so courteous to tell ya how often someone is online there looking), and he was checking it a lot. In fact, I realized that he was on there more often that he was talking to me. Red flag!

So I set out to find out if he was a player, so I could eliminate him as I deemed necessary. So I set out to create a profile for a girl with all the qualities I knew he liked in the very local area.

Within a couple weeks, he failed my test miserably... in other words, he took the bait and got caught. Not only that, but he actually responded to my alter ego with a plagiarized version of the very same email he first sent me! I was pissed, but glad I set it up. I know it sounds bad, and like I was playing a game myself, but I had to get the info I needed in order to either keep or eliminate him. It worked very well.

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