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Online Dating Experience 28
Boyfriend Surfing Online Dating Sites

40 year old female from Canada

I met my current boyfriend on an online dating site. He was the first guy I talked with and we instantly hit it off. We have been together now for a year and a half.

I was on his computer a few months ago when I noticed that he had been on the dating site recently. When I checked further I noticed he had been on there several times three months after our relationship began. I confronted him with this and asked him to stop. I told him it made me feel like I wasn't good enough. If that is how he really felt then we should call it quits now. He told me it was sick curiosity on his part. He spends most mornings trading stocks on the Internet and finds himself on the dating sites occasionally. I accept his explanation.

We don't live together so I have to trust he has stopped. Also we live in a small town. If he was dating or seeing someone else on the side then I would eventually find out. I think guys are creatures of habit. Before he met me this was his morning routine.

I think men are not Monogamous by nature. They have to choose to be like that for the right person. I know my guy is with me and only with me. It still doesn't excuse his previous behavior but now that it out in the open I can put it into perspective. Believe me I am not shy about talking about all of this with him but definitely I am not going to make it into a fight. I find just by letting him tell me why he does it and listening to him I can help him to realize it will be a problem in the long run in our relationship; that his curiosity has effected my trust of him.


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