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Reader Review Submitted By: Paul Solva
Gender: Male
Age: 47

Dating Site: eHarmony.com
Rating: 6 (out of 10)

Review
After reading all the negative reviews, more by the men than the women, I would like to share a few thoughts.

1. YES the site is not perfect. There are non-members who we are unable to contact and that stinks.

2. Height and weight stuff is critical to US superficial men. HOWEVER, it is a 'HUGH TURNOFF' to be conversing with a lady under false pretenses. To show up for a date and have to spend time with an obese person is no fun.

3. I have been dating for 7 years since my divorce and have discovered many of us have a 'laundry list' of requirements for our MR/MRS Right that often reaches to the sky! The upshot of that is that as we age, we bring more baggage to potential relationships, and our pool of possible available matches dwindles rapidly.
In other words AS WE AGE, WE BECOME LESS ATTRACTIVE AND MORE PARTICULAR..Is that messed up or what?

So in light of that, I believe that eHarmony.com is analogous to dating itself. It is all about expectations. Expectations, if unrealistically high can destroy relationships. If you are under the mistaken belief that this will bring the perfect match, smarten up folks. It is all about the NUMBERS! How else can we get our pics and personalities spread far and wide, with very little effort? Yes there are other sites and yes you can meet people and have sex, but no where else do they at least make some attempt to match people by some method (high tech or not).

I'm still trying. Good luck all and be positive.

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