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Online Dating Experience 42
Wanting Clean Urban Men
41 year old female
from Texas I have met many guys online but probably
only got out with 5% of them after the weeding process.
My biggest contact problem is that I am flooded with
country guys in cowboy hats and standing next to horses,
etc. Also, does every man over 40 ride a Harley?
They are also obsesses with fishing and hunting and the outdoors. I am a city
person and have no interest in the country life or Harleys I consider myself
feminine and not a biker babe.
Of the guys that I have met, I have been
rejected by almost all of them and the few that mentioned
a second date just disappeared.
I am completely honest in
my profile and my pictures are current. I think it is the fact that I don't
have a college education and that I don't have a big paying job. It is funny
that these guys can't have a relationship with me because of those things but
at the same time, I get tons of emails from guys 15-20 years older than me
and also guys with three or more kids, not to mention
guys that are overweight especially
in relation to my small frame.
I seem to go on one first date after
the other. I have only had two cheap dates (one guy
ate in front of me and the other walked
away from the coffee shop that
we agreed to meet at).
It seems these guys would be better off finding a
guy friend to do the guy stuff they enjoy. As a woman
I don't enjoy men's activities and do not want to
go out to a parking lot on the weekend and look at
everyone's sports car.
I also see that so many of
these guys are looking for someone who "can
keep up with me". Gee if I can't "keep up with them" certainly
they will come back around and I will run into them won't I.
If I see a motorcycle, a horse, a fish, a cowboy
hat or hear one more story about the country life,
I will
jump! I like clean urban men and city living.
Also I receive too many currently separated responses
and men wanting to have sex right away. I have found
that the men who say they are looking for marriage
and commitment really aren't. The "friends" line
means they are looking for no commitment sex.
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