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Online Dating Experience 12
Weed Them Out
30 year
old male from Arizona
Basically when I do the online dating
thing, I have a sequence called "weed them out" I
go through.
When I send out a reply to a personal ad, I stick
to women who don't have pictures on their profiles
because there's a better shot at her responding back
to me because she'll get less responses. Then it's
pretty much a crap shoot as to what she'll look like
-- and I've hit beauty queens down to Soupy Sales
in Drag. I'm not picky and as long as I can walk down
the street with her, she looks OK to me.
First of all, I weed out the ones who never want to
go out on In Real Life dates. All they want to do is
email or talk on the phone, and that gets boring. I
don't chat with a girl for more than two weeks without
an actual face to face date planned. Plus, in personal
ads, you get a lot of "out of state" women
sending responses. These women do this because they
don't want to meet face to face; they just want something
to do while they sit at home alone on a friday/saturday
night. Weed those out.
Then weed out the workaholics who go to school full
time, work full time and then on top of it have part
time jobs. Nobody needs a girl who has one night off
every 2 or 3 weeks.
After that, weed out the ones who need a man to rescue
them from financial or family obligations. "I
have $20,000 in credit card debt" or "I
have to take care of my disabled father" are
sure-fire fatal flaws.
From there, see where the road takes you.
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