The problem? Unfortunately it is that the women these “free spirits” are dating (though not all of them), are secretly holding on for dear life, and hoping they’ll be able to change the situation with enough love and hope.
Hope against hope. I’ve been there. But older and much wiser now, I don’t hang on to situations where my value is not recognized, nor my time wasted. I figured out some time ago, that any man who does not recognize the “catch” that I am, isn’t worth catching! And if you’re a fabulous female, so should you.
Unless you’re a “confirmed bachelorette” stop holding on for dear life, and hold out for something better! Stop the cooking, cleaning, crying, coaxing, and the Kama Sutra. And come to your senses.
Ultimatums and Expectations
Confirmed bachelors are clever creatures! They often have good taste and choose women who are cream of the crop. They send mixed messages for fear of losing these women who, quite frankly, could easily exercise their options elsewhere. And these fellows know this! So they lead their lovers on, so they won’t lose out.
To try to tame them, some women have questioned the
use of ultimatums, and whether they work in getting
a guy to the altar.
speaking, an ultimatum could jolt him to his senses.
Or it could backfire and have him bolting
in the opposite direction!
Why women need to wake up and smell the coffee!
So, here are the findings of a study conducted on bachelors and what it reveals. Take note.
If he’s over forty and never been married, chances are he’ll stay that way”, according to Ph. D. Charles Waehler, author of Bachelors: the Psychology of Men Who Haven’t Married.”
Here’s what his research has uncovered:
He also states that about 3 million men in this country alone choose not to marry. Waehler contends that these guys are not woman-haters, ladies’ men or mama’s boys. They are just happy the way they are.
Food for thought.
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