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 Editorial:
Relationship Philosophies From Online Daters
by Joe Tracy, Publisher of Online Dating Magazine
(December 2003) One of the great things
about online dating is the ability to read a vast array
of profiles. Some profiles are short and to the point,
while others are philosophical in nature, presenting
opinions and ideas for better relationships.
In my online dating experience I've viewed
thousands of profiles of interesting people. I've been
impressed enough with some of the philosophy some people
present in these profiles that I've recently gathered
a few philosophical tid-bits from online daters to
share with you. It's amazing how much wisdom you can
pick up from other people. Here's a few of my recent
favorites:
"How the person you are with treats
those without power, will give you excellent insight
as to how that person will eventually attempt to treat
you." From a profile on American
Singles.
"My motto is: you were born an original,
don't die a copy." From a profile on Match.com.
"I think relationships are work,
and building a strong foundation is the most important
thing because while all the hearts and flowers and
moonlit strolls on the beach are fabulous, what really
wins out in the long run is friendship and genuine
affection and respect for one another." From
a profile on LavaLife.
"My philosophy is PMA - positive
mental attitude, because being positive can make the
impossible possible." From an profile on Veggie
Date.
"I've learned that common interests
are all well and good, but it's communication styles,
core values and perspectives, and needs and wants that
really make two people compatible." From a
profile on Match.com.
"I take from others things I really
value in that person and remember it and try to incorporate
into my life." From a profile on eHarmony.
"I don't believe there are any mistakes
in life, just opportunities to learn." From
a profile on LavaLife.
"I think I have something to learn from everyone,
and that relationships and/or people are like mirrors,
each one showing us a different part of ourselves so
that we can know ourselves better through multiple
diverse relationships." From a Profile on Veggie
Date.
"Don't settle. What you are looking for is out
there and it's worth the wait." From a profile
on American
Singles.
"I think finding a partner has more
to do with finding a mental and spiritual connection
and harmony with another person than just looks....but,
without doubt, physical attraction is essential, though
it falters and ultimately fails without depth of character
and shared core values." From a profile on Match.com.
I see the online dating experience as
a way not only to meet great people - and an eventual
soul mate to share life's dreams with - but also as
a means of improving yourself through the shared wisdom
of others.
Joe Tracy
jtracy@onlinedatingmagazine.com
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