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Dating Tips Advice Column:
How Do I Know If He Is Interested
In Me?
Dear Dating Tips,
I love your magazine! Anyway, I just got back
from what I thought was a great date. We had a ton of
fun and seem to have a lot of chemistry. My problem
is that I don't know if he is going to call again or
if he felt the same way as me. Are there any specific
signs that can help me determine his interest level? ~
Need an Interest Detector
Dear Need an Interest Detector,
Your question is a great one. It's also a very challenging
question because it's not always easy to tell when
your date is genuinely interested or when they are
just being nice.
If your date exhibits most of the following specific
signs, it could be an indication that your date is
truly interested
in
you:
1) Your date compliments you ("you look great", "I
love your sense of humor," "You're easy to talk to,"
"I love your smile," etc.).
2) Your date uses words like "we," "us," or "together"
("we'd have a lot of fun trying ____," "We should do
____
sometime,"
"We do this well together," etc.)
3) Your date references future events with you ("If
we ever go bowling, I think you'd win")
4) Your date innocently touches you. One of the biggest
signs of a person's interest and comfort level is if
they touch you. Like a slight tap on the shoulder,
a quick touch on your arm to make a point. These are
very innocent and natural movements that comes from
someone who feels genuinely comfortable with you.
5) Your date leans towards you and doesn't sit back
with arms crossed.
6) At the end of the date the person says "I had a
lot of fun" instead of "It was nice to meet you."
While these all may be signs
of an enhanced interest, there are no guarantees. There
are a lot of mysteries about dating and one is how
the other person truly feels.
There is, however, something you can do to help
take some of the mysteries out of a first date. If
you had fun on your date and would like to see that
person again, make it very clear that you are interested.
If you are a female and you enjoyed your experience
be sure
to
let the guy know that
you really had a fun time and enjoyed his company.
That
gives him a clear signal that you are receptive to
a second
date.
And
if his
interest
was
the same,
you'll be hearing from him real soon. ~
The Dating Tipster
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