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by Kim Lance,
associate publisher of Online Dating Magazine
Some Quick Ways
to Say "I Love You"
Usually in this column I discuss how
to deal with major issues, resolve conflict, or make
the best out of difficult situations. But, this week,
inspired by the beauty and happiness of spring, I have
decided to provide some quick ideas on little things
you can do to reaffirm to your partner that you love
them and think about them often. You may be doing everything
right in your relationship – communicating effectively,
making lots of quality time for each other, solving
any conflicts – but that doesn’t mean there
aren’t several little ways to connect even more
with your partner. Remember, it’s the little
things that count!
Greet Your Partner With Excitement
When you get home from work each day, don’t walk
in the door stressed out or down. Show your partner
that you are happy to be back home with them by greeting
them with a smile, a big hug, and a friendly hello.
If you are picking your partner up for a date always
seem excited to see him or her, even if the traffic
on the drive over frustrated you. You are in for a
good night from here on out so be happy about it.
Leave Love Notes
Write “I love you” on the bathroom mirror
for a hidden message revealed after your partner showers.
Send an email or text message to let your partner know
you are thinking about them. Place a note on their car
if you drive by their office parking lot during the day
(make sure it's the right car!). Any little excuse to
show your love will show your partner
how truly caring you are.
Hold Hands
Remember when you were first dating? You probably couldn’t
keep your hands off each other. Bring a little of that
added affection back to your relationship by grabbing
your partner’s hand as you walk down the street
together or sit next to each other at the movie theater.
This little bit of tenderness is a good opportunity
for added closeness.
Go On Dates
Going out on an official date at least one time each
week ("date night") is an easy and fun way to show
love
for one
another.
If
you
get
into the mentality of an official “date” rather
than just going out to dinner, it is almost like
you are giving yourself an added excuse to be romantic.
It is practically expected!
Gaze Into Your Partner’s Eyes
Really try to look into your partner’s eyes when
you are in deep conversation. The intensity of locking
eyes can make anyone’s heart race and, by staying
focused on your partner while they are talking, you
are showing them that you are really listening to what
they say and that, for that moment, they are the most
important thing on your mind.
A Tip Just for Him
Leave the Toilet Seat Down
It is one of the easiest things you can do, yet many
men forget to do this. It may sound a little strange,
but, in a way, it is a sign of respect to your girlfriend
or wife. You are sparing her the inconvenience of having
to do it herself and that always makes a good impression,
even if it is an unconscious one. Keeping the seat
up only frustrates her while putting the seat down,
although a very small act, is a great way to make her
life a little easier.
A Tip Just for Her
Be Vulnerable…Sometimes
It is instinctual that at times men will want to feel
strong and, well, manly. Finding an excuse to ask for
help from your boyfriend or husband can not only help
boost his ego, but also show him that you rely on him
for love and companionship. Don’t get me wrong,
I have tons of respect for independent women, but asking
for help opening a tight jar or lifting something heavy
is an easy way to make your partner feel needed. And,
as long as you know you could do it yourself if you
wanted to, isn’t it ok to rely on your loved-one
now and then and show a little vulnerability?
Hopefully these tips will bring even more joy and
togetherness to already happy relationships. It is
always a good idea to find added ways to express your
love and appreciation for your partner and, as you
can see in these examples, it doesn’t have to
take much time. A little extra focus on your partner
here or there is just another thing, along with effective
communication, tenderness, and respect, that will keep
your relationship strong and happy.
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